Wednesday, January 7, 2009
"Am I Tight Enough?"
I received the following question via email regarding a sexual concern of a "20-something" woman in Philadelphia:
Q: Am I tight enough down there?
A: All vaginas aren't created equal...but they're not far off. While slight differences in tightness may be noticeable, it's nothing worth stressing about since the variation is so minuscule. And if he does feel like he has extra room down there, it's almost certainly because he's on the small side!
Worried that you'll become loose from too much use? "The vagina has a lot of elasticity and won't become stretched out from sexual activity," explains Ian Kerner, PhD, author of Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man. In fact, the only thing that can stretch you out is having a baby...and even that's minor shockingly after passing something the size of a Mini-Cooper through your platinum walls! (yes, that was dramatic - sorry)
To deal with what you may perceive as a lack of tightness try Kegel Exercises by contracting and releasing your pelvic-floor muscles — the ones you use to hold in pee — at random times during the day. (I'm doing it now, do it with me.....and 2, 3, 4 - and hold, hold, hold, and release) Then whe you're having sex, tighten them as he thrusts. You'll both find that you feel tighter, and you may even have a more intense orgasm. Or try this position to create more friction: Lie on your side with your thighs together, and have him enter you from behind which is always a winner for both involved! (wink)
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