To Be, or Not To Be.....Mrs. Beyonce Carter?

Okay, it was REAL serious on Friday night - Amanda (my Boo), Kyra (my BFF), and I were ON IT yall.......watching tv, on the internet, and listening to the radio to see if it really happened!!

After years of speculation, singer Beyoncé Knowles wed her longtime boyfriend, rapper Jay-Z, on Friday, a friend of the couple tells PEOPLE. Though there is no official confirmation, the friend says, "It happened earlier this evening. Jay wanted it to be a really private affair – close friends and family." The ceremony was followed by a lavish party at the rapper's Tribeca apartment, see flower delivery above. (Exhibit A) The wedding buzz began when the couple went to get a marriage license at a village hall in Scarsdale, N.Y., on Tuesday.

No one has confirmed BeyonJay but after all this hype - SOMEONE BETTER HAVE GOTTEN MARRIED, I DON'T EVEN CARE WHO!! LOL Here is the run down of the spottings Friday night obtained from TMZ:

UPDATE 5:28 PM ET: There's a report Beyonce's mom just got in a limo, possibly on the way to the apartment.

UPDATE 5:39 PM ET: Here's a pic of Tina Knowles taken just minutes ago.

UPDATE 5:47 PM ET: Tina -- in all her casual glory -- just arrived at the building. And we just spoke with another resident of the building, who tells us they were aware of a "party" tonight on the roof, but wouldn't say much more than that.

UPDATE 6:08 PM ET: Beyonce's father Matthew Knowles, wearing slacks and a suit jacket and wheeling a rolly bag, walking into the Bloomberg building in Midtown.

UPDATE 6:21 PM ET: Jay-Z's mom arrived with Beyonce's mother in the same ride. Interesting.

UPDATE: 6:23 PM ET: Jay-Z's Maybach (insanely expensive) is en route. It left from Jigga's other apartment in Midtown. Don't know who's in it.

UPDATE: 6:27 PM ET: There's a buzz they already got married (you think so?) and that what you're looking at is the site of the reception. Just passing it along, folks.

UPDATE 6:57 PM ET: Jay-Z's mother Gloria Carter was seen at the Bloomberg building (where we just saw Matthew Knowles) wearing a formal white dress. Beyonce's sister Solange was there too-- also wearing white!

UPDATE 7:39 PM ET: Kelly Rowland has just arrived -- wearing a white dress!

UPDATE 7:48 PM ET: OMG. Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin just arrived!

UPDATE 7:58 PM ET: Matthew Knowles -- B's dad -- just drove in, wearing a silver jacket. (God that sounds horrible)

UPDATE 8:03 PM ET: Beyonce's baby sis Solange just showed up.

UPDATE 10:41 PM ET: Drivers of the limos and towne cars stated they were hired for an event (they didn't know what) three days ago, but TODAY they were told that the event was off. THEN, this afternoon, they were told it was back ON. But the drivers don't really have much info on anything-- they're all circling the block waiting for instruction from security. Another interesting item-- no cell phones are allowed inside. The drivers are all carrying their clients' phones, waiting for them to come out.

UPDATE 1:00 AM ET: People.com is reporting the marriage happened. No word from either Beyonce or Jay-Z's camp. Stay tuned ...

Hmmm, what do u think?

PS - I heard that this Thurs they will reveal that they were wed at Jay's concert in Houston, Bey's hometown!!!