Lubrication FAIL

Hey Dolls! I know we have discussed lube before on Passion For Pretty and how much I LOVE KY Silk, like LOVE it!!! It's SUPER silky, stays moist, works in water, AND a few drops will last all night long. So lets talk..... 

Call me lazy but I waited until I was completely OUT of Silk before I decided to head on over to my local Walgreens to replace it. To my dismay, they were out of the Silk! I should have listened to my inner sex gooddess that told me to take my ass up the street to Rite Aid or CVS but noooooo, I decided to try the Yours + Mine since the commercials crack me up.

Here is where the fuckery begins...not only was it annoying trying to figure out which bottle is for who in the HEAT of the moment with just the light from a few nearby candles ("No, I should squirt the blue one on you I think?!?"), but the consistency was way horrible! Not enough slide and glide, if you know what I'm saying. *wink*

So I officially give KY Yours + Mine a rating of negative 1 stiletto! (BOOOOO)

Smooches & Lube Quick Claps

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Drool Worthy

I’ve come to realize that I dress from my feet up, a shoe is always selected first (based on mood, season, and occasion)…the rest just seems to fall into place! I’ve tried to select a blouse or a few bangles first but then I find myself faced with more shoe options than I even care to admit that would compliment my ensemble. *blink* Clearly you can see how a girl might end up in a pickle that way! I digress, feet up is the way that I roll.



The black and yellow stripped whipsnake box clutch is a power piece by Alexander McQueen. The color accent and the silver-tone skull and crystal-studded-knuckled-duster clasp SCREAMS edgy! A small yet powerful fashion punch, all women needs a “wild card” in her wardrobe. The sharp forma cut out sandals are by Miu Miu, edgy with a twist of elegance making this shoe multi-functional! It’s certainly edgy enough to play with the McQueen clutch but elegant enough to be paired with a maxi-dress for a Sunday afternoon brunch.


I love bold pieces that can carry an outfit – any outfit. This HAUTE duo would even make dark skinny jeans and a basic white tee deliciously fabulous! Let’s revamp our closets ladies, start by purchasing shoes and accessories to see which outfits from last year may still make the lineup in your Spring 2010 wardrobe. Step outside of the box, spice things up a bit, and let your hair down!


Fashion cannot be confined, it’s flexible and fluid. Fashion cannot be defined in a single term, it’s forever changing. I love that I am young and fashionably free during a time where there truly are NO rules, are you fully embracing your fashion freedom?

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Tantalizing Texture

Texture is "IN" for the Spring ladies; suede, leather, faux leather....keyword here is texture.

I am head over stilettos over this Guess Mercy Suede Draped Jacket!!! I love the way the the draping softly hangs and I can only imagine the beautiful movement it has as one would walk.

Perfect with dark skinny jeans and a pair of haute nude heels (another Spring 2010 trend, TBD = to be discussed) - BELLA!

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I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Don't Leave Home Without It

OHH EMM GEE, I am in love!!! I totally LOVE the Tide To Go Pen and am over the moon that they have come out with the "Mini". (the regular one is too long to fit in my makeup bag)

Ladies, this is a MUST HAVE at all times....no need to ask for club soda when you can instantly remove stains - talk about instant satisfaction! I have removed everything from red wine to lip gloss with my Tide Pen along with BBQ sauce of the shirts of little ones at a summer cookout.

Need I say more?!? *blink*

Smooches & Tide To Go Mini Quick Claps

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Primer Potion

Have you Divas discovered the benefits of eye primer? Anyone? Feel free to speak up......

Eye primer provides smoother, longer-lasting, and absolutely crease-proof eyeshadow - period. It creates the BEST canvas to create a flawless eye!

Eyeshadow Primer Potions from Urban Decay fulfills three wishes listed above like magic! Apply Primer Potion to lids before shadow application and it dries down almost instantly, creating smooth lids that are super-powered eyeshadow magnets.

Available at Sephora, check http://www.sephora.com/help/stores/index.jhtml for store locations.

Smooches & Primer Quick Claps

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Spring Fever - Part 2

I am UBER excited about the Spring 2010 shoe line up!!! (yes, I KNOW I have a problem) I get this way every year during New York Fashion Week....it's like the official start of Srping/Summer shopping for us fashionistas, almost like a National Holiday! LOL

During my most recent late nite internet window shopping I found these cuties. The base of the sandal is super simple but the embellished ankle wrap makes my heart skip a beat with joy - dramatic yet feminine! (I would describe myself the same)

Jimmy Choo Embellished Ankle Wrap Snadals, $1,395

Smooches & Spring Fever Quick Claps 

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Fashion Week Style Icon - Rachel McAdams

Rachel looks sugary sweet at New York Fashion Week! She's always on point: ensemble, hair (which appears to be a few tones lighter than her usual), and makeup.


At the Alexander Wang show, Rachel's highlighted her curves in a black-and-white striped bandage skirt and booties (left). Simple and elegant!


The actress wore a bold blue Derek Lam dress and peep-toe pumps at the Proenza Schouler show (right).....F-I-R-E!!!!!!!!!!!


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Source: InStyle

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

To Haiti With Love

The fashion industry has teamed up with Beyonce to raise money for the victims of Haiti’s devastating earthquake. The singer has been named the official face of the "Fashion for Haiti" T-shirt that was created specifically for the cause.

The initiative was organized by the Council of Fashion Designers of America with the support of fashion leaders like Diane von Furstenberg, Donna Karan, Ralph Lauren and Franciso Costa.

The $25 T-shirt will be available for purchase starting February 16th, with all proceeds benefiting the Clinton Bush Haiti Fund.

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I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Flat.....and FABULOUS!

I completely ran across these feminine cuties by accident - I'm SO it love!!!!!

I have finally come to terms with as much as I adore and live for a fab heel that sometimes I just need a flat....but I still need to be high fashion. *blink*

Allow me to introduce you to the new love of my life, the Indira Feather Ballet Flat. Ohhhs and ahhhs to the the exquisite hand placed iridescent green pheasant feathers that cover the shoe, the black grosgrain bow, and a 1950s hat pin inspired pearl-topped pin - JUST SINFULLY DELICIOUS!

Pedro Garcia Indira Feather Ballet Flat, $725, 888-888-4757

Smooches & FAB Flat Quick Claps

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Like Butter Baby

Hydrating your lips doesn't get more luxurious than this!

This lip balm is loaded with vitamins, botanicals, and marine extracts. It's feel like butter...just what your lips are asking for in this cold weather.

Indulge!

LaMer, The Lip Balm, .32 oz, $45

Smooches & Like Butter Quick Claps

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Taste the Rainbow

I don't know where to begin....not only do I love the triple platform and slender stiletto on these Casadei pumps but I am also totally obsessed with the candy like rainbow colors! This is a practical, modern, semi-conservative, always appropriate HAUTE shoe. *blink*

Okay yes, these puppies DO have a 5.5" heel but there is a 1.5' platform in the front which equals one mighty comfy shoe so they say. I tend to be a believer since every fab diva in Hollywood has been spotted with these on!

Casadei Triple Platform Pump, $590

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

OPI Fail

Have any of you heard of this product, the OPI Axxium Gel?!? OPIs hottest and most popular nail colors in a long-lasting, UV-cured, soak-off gel formula polish.

I heard about it a little over a year ago online but it wasn't offered in my nail salon until just a few months ago. My technician was SUPER excited to tell me about it knowing that I am a beauty blogger. *and YES, she has taken a few shots of my freshly painted nails for me* I digress...so I immediately gave it as try, totally sold on the non-chip aspect because I hate nothing more than the dreaded chipped mani!!!! *ewwww, so 1983*

It honestly was the BEST manicure that I have received, it truly was chip resistant and maintained a shine for the full 2-3 weeks between appointments! All was girly and FAB until I started to notice how easily my nails were chipping....and then how thin my nails were after soaking off the gel. *ugghhh*

I feel taken advantage of, that whole "keeping nails strong as they grow out" was a TOTAL lie! *OPI owes me about $120 PLUS compensation for having to endure weak nails once again*

Has anyone tried Minx Nails?

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I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Spring Fever - Part 1

Buttons add a little prim to this not so proper leather sandal.....it's like a tug of war between good girl and bad girl! (sounds like the bio to my life)

Black leather and gunmetal hardware are all that a girl needs in a shoe/sandal, right?!? *blink* LOL

Elizabeth and James Button-Back Sandal, $325

Smooches & Spring Fever Quick Claps

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Living the Lessons in 2010

In the back of our minds we all hope that the coming year will be better than the one we leave behind. Truth is, in most cases we are the masters of our destiny....but the other telling truth is that in most cases - we fail dismally when it comes to New Year's Resolutions. So I've got a trick for the statistics (and myself), I am calling it Living the Lessons. No far-fetched resolutions, just a promise to myself to lead a more fulfilling life!

This isn't to vow to hit the gym and look like Beyonce by the summer (okay, okay...so I DO want a Beyonce body but a bit thicker - like a size 10/12 which is ONLY 20 more lbs away thank you Lawd), it's DEEPER than that! I turn 33 in January (I know I must love my readers to have admitted to my REAL age! LOL) and have never taken the time to list the lessons that I have learned personally, professionally, and spiritually as an adult in this crazy thing called "life".

Normally this list would stay hidden within my journal in the back of my pantie drawer but THIS year I have decided to share with the world for two reasons: 1) words contain empowering empowering energy that I need to release into the universe 2) I want those that know me, love me, and even hate me to check me if you see me slipping, giving up, and hiding under the covers due to my circumstances.

Here are my top five lessons that I am embracing for 2010:

1. Plan Purposefully

-Talk less, say more.

- Developing goals for myself, pinpointing the needed actions for reaching those goals, making sure my behavior is aligned with my goals, and assessing the outcomes of my prior actions to make current adjustments.

2. Prepare Prayerfully

- Fear less, hold on to my FAITH more.

- Fervent prayer will allow me to be receptive to the guidance of the Spirit.

- Bible Study

3. Proceed Positively

-Complain less, embrace more.

- Allow into my awareness only feelings of happiness, strength, and success.

4. Pursue Persistently

-Fail forward but NEVER fall.

-Willing is NOT enough, I must do.....consistently.

5. Indulge the Ego

-EGO TRIP: an activity, period of time, etc. devoted ENTIRELY to indulging in one's own interests or in self-expression.

Happy New Year!

I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet. -Carrie Bradshaw

Clutch and Go

I am a firm believer that the RIGHT clutch can take you from day to night in the blink of an eye. There is a difference between a clutch and a strapless evening bag.....please know the difference before you attempt to carry any questionable piece. *blink*

This envelope style clutch is from Mango, $69.90. This is the perfect size, the perfect shape, appropriate for work but chic enough for night.

Smooches & Day-to-Night Quick Claps

Not one drop of my self-respect is dependent on your acceptance of me. - Quincy Jones

MERRY CHRISTMAS

Colgate....WISP Me Away!

This is TOO cute! A single-use mini toothbrush that freshens breath without needing water to active nor rinse afterwards.

These are the perfect size to fit in any clutch or even in your pocket.....hell, between your titties in your bra if needed - no more excuses for foul breath! lol

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Winter Trend: Metal Heels

Salvatore Ferragamo

When you think of Salvatore Ferragamo, you think of a premium brand of luxury, elegance and sophistication. The Ferragamo family has been making shoes since the early 1920's with the consistency that only they can bring. The craftsmanship and detail of their collections is always amazing.

These Ferragamo beauties are made from Fondente leather, just FLAWLESS!

There is a very fine line between fashion and trashy when it comes to metal heels...but Ferragamo has pulled it off effortlessly.

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Not one drop of my self-respect is dependent on your acceptance of me. - Quincy Jones

3 Ways to Burn Off Eggnog

The treat: A small glass of eggnog (3/4 cup, 257 calories)

Try this: Go sledding on a snowy hill for 32 minutes.

Or this: Head to the mall for 45 minutes of pre-shopping power walking.

Or this: Do a 27-minute mini –circuit: Set treadmill to 7.5-percent incline and walk at

3.5 mph for 4 minutes, then lower treadmill and run at 6 mph for 5 minutes; repeat the sequence 2 more times.

Not one drop of my self-respect is dependent on your acceptance of me. - Quincy Jones

Hollywood Glamour Anyone?

Estee Lauder Michael Kors Very Hollywood Color Collection

The Michael Kors runway show has always been one of our favorites for beauty because the makeup is always pretty--and something we'd actually wear. So I was psyched to find out that the designer has teamed up with Estée Lauder for its spring makeup line.

The Estée Lauder Michael Kors Very Hollywood Color Collection features two looks based on the same philosophy Kors has for his runway beauty: classic with pops of color.

"Bel Air Beige" is warm, with shimmery peaches for cheeks and lips, beige and chocolate for the eyes, and an opaque beige nail polish. "Rodeo Pink" (shown above) focuses on that color, at least for lips, cheeks, and nails; the black-and-white shadow duo works for sultry smoky eyes. There's also a loose shimmer powder in pearly pink for the signature Kors glow.

The products are on counters in January 2010, so look for them then!

Smooches & Quick Claps

Not one drop of my self-respect is dependent on your acceptance of me. - Quincy Jones